Attended a talk by a motivator last week. Although the talk wasn't too interesting but i managed to pick up a valuable point from it.. CHOICE is the word!! we are always forced to make choices in life..every morning when we start our day, we have the choice to start it brightly or choose to be moody..i realised 'someone' has been really moody lately..I prefer to live in a harmony environment. Therefore, i would rather see people around me to be cheerful and not struggle with life everyday.
A good day could be started with just a simple cheerful 'Good Morning' greetings but if one prefer to stay moody and show a dark face early in the morning, there goes his/her day. Maybe sometimes we can't avoid to face uneventful things happening to our life, maybe we can't stop someone from falling ill, maybe sometimes we just can't avoid losing in the market..etc..BUT we can choose to face it bravely rather than grumble and grumble or complaints after complaints.
When was the last time you say good morning to your parents? When was the last time you greet your neighbour? When was the last time you phoned your faraway buddy?? Never ever say no time or not in a position to do so..it's your CHOICE!!!
When was the last time your boss talked to you? When was the last time your boss appreciated you and give you more task in your work?? Don't grumble!! Appreciate it!! Be afraid when your boss ignore you and stop giving you jobs. It is your boss' choice for ignoring you but it was first YOUR CHOICE to ignore your task and not doing your job properly..so that's the outcome for sitting there and do nothing. I don't know how you guys feel by just sitting down there, 10 hours a day, doing nothing, just looking at your phone and sms, just playing games, reading newspapers, facebook-ing..etc..i can't!! and i choose not to be one of these people..how about you? it's all your choice..up to you..you get to decide!!
Kelvin
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Parents
I always have this principle in my mind where i won't allow anyone to hurt my family members especially my parents. Though they are our senior and someone who brought us up, but they are quite fragile or sensitive when it comes to their love and trust to their children. They get really hurt when their children ignore them, leave the country to fulfil their dreams or even not respecting them. Actually i think they are like children whom needs to be loved and taken care of.
Dont you think it is so sweet to hold their hands to cross roads, give them a big and good hug or even make them a good breakfast. Anyway, i just want to say that i am very lucky to have such a good and lovely parents and siblings. Why not go home today to give your parents a good and lovely hug? Hehe..
Yong
Dont you think it is so sweet to hold their hands to cross roads, give them a big and good hug or even make them a good breakfast. Anyway, i just want to say that i am very lucky to have such a good and lovely parents and siblings. Why not go home today to give your parents a good and lovely hug? Hehe..
Yong
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
LIfe oh life...
This blog had been dormant for at least 3 months. Haha..the last entry was about teoh beng hock. Life still have to go on. I managed to overcome the fear of the death of mr teoh. Hehe.. Managed to go toilet alone and using the lift by myself. Applause for my braveness...Haha..I recalled everyone taking it as a funny joke but it was scary when the incident happened during hungry ghost festival. Anyway its over..Back to my life..
Newly bought a car. Peugeot 308 with turbo oh..always wanted one since i got back from aus. Now i have a car to pay, this is where my purse's papers are getting thinner and the sums in the bank acc are always not enough. GOSH!! i just cant understand how some ppl can afford to pay for house and car installment. Hehe..anyway i still love my car alot even if i cant buy branded bags and eating luxury foods. As long as i am with my parents..haha..i can still have bags and foods..:)
Sad to say that our lovely high pitched voice lady in my team is going to leave the office. I am just going to wish her all the best cause she is going to take a step further for her life. Congrats girl!!!! ALL the best ya...
I will update you guys about my work soon. I start to find my job very interesting.. Sitting in the office playing ds and after work, i get to go drinking without paying for the alcohol. Interesting? I didnt change a new job ya. Just change a new task/scope.
Yong
Newly bought a car. Peugeot 308 with turbo oh..always wanted one since i got back from aus. Now i have a car to pay, this is where my purse's papers are getting thinner and the sums in the bank acc are always not enough. GOSH!! i just cant understand how some ppl can afford to pay for house and car installment. Hehe..anyway i still love my car alot even if i cant buy branded bags and eating luxury foods. As long as i am with my parents..haha..i can still have bags and foods..:)
Sad to say that our lovely high pitched voice lady in my team is going to leave the office. I am just going to wish her all the best cause she is going to take a step further for her life. Congrats girl!!!! ALL the best ya...
I will update you guys about my work soon. I start to find my job very interesting.. Sitting in the office playing ds and after work, i get to go drinking without paying for the alcohol. Interesting? I didnt change a new job ya. Just change a new task/scope.
Yong
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Life is never easy
My office, Plaza Masalam suddenly became famous since last Thursday, 16th July 2009 after a DAP political aide to assemblymen fall to his dead after hours of questioning by MACC. Ever since then, everywhere i go, everyone i see will be either asking me about the updated news or some even teased that i was the one who pushed him down..although it was just a joke but i feel heartache within me. Ever since then, i have been updating myself with news of him and also video on youtube..all done quietly though, to avoid 'someone' having phobia from hearing it or talking anything about him
His name is Teoh Beng Hock, age 30..it's really pity seeing someone dying at such a young age. I still recall seeing his dead body with my own eyes from my office window..for hours. I've just finished watching another video on his funeral day. Suddenly just have this stupid thinking that IF one day, i said IF, if one day suddenly GOD wants to recall me..how would it be? Maybe i'm just feeling very down now..i suddenly just felt that life is really not easy..i understand why GOD wants us to suffer but why? WHY?? WHY it has to happen so often? I just don't want to see people i love live in pain..i just want people around me to be happy, is it really such a tall order? I always claimed that i do the best for people..did I actually manage to do so? How many person can i actually please at one time? I thought i tried my best to give the best to everyone but it's always not enough!! I know it could be just a small matter to other people but i always treat this kind of issue with care..i know i can't just leave it aside..but how much can i actually do? A friend told me today, when two person get together, eventhough how much you love him/her, you shouldn't be giving it all the time, or everytime..but i think i DID..why? I just don't like argument and worse still, cold war..sigh..tough life..
i don't intend to spoil anyone's mood here..just feel like shouted out loud..that's all! sorry people..
-Kelvin
His name is Teoh Beng Hock, age 30..it's really pity seeing someone dying at such a young age. I still recall seeing his dead body with my own eyes from my office window..for hours. I've just finished watching another video on his funeral day. Suddenly just have this stupid thinking that IF one day, i said IF, if one day suddenly GOD wants to recall me..how would it be? Maybe i'm just feeling very down now..i suddenly just felt that life is really not easy..i understand why GOD wants us to suffer but why? WHY?? WHY it has to happen so often? I just don't want to see people i love live in pain..i just want people around me to be happy, is it really such a tall order? I always claimed that i do the best for people..did I actually manage to do so? How many person can i actually please at one time? I thought i tried my best to give the best to everyone but it's always not enough!! I know it could be just a small matter to other people but i always treat this kind of issue with care..i know i can't just leave it aside..but how much can i actually do? A friend told me today, when two person get together, eventhough how much you love him/her, you shouldn't be giving it all the time, or everytime..but i think i DID..why? I just don't like argument and worse still, cold war..sigh..tough life..
i don't intend to spoil anyone's mood here..just feel like shouted out loud..that's all! sorry people..
-Kelvin
Friday, June 26, 2009
Personality test
Haha..everyone was expecting some 'different' answer from the quiz that i tried. Anyway below is the result for my quiz:
Get to know yourself better:
Your view on yourself: You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties. ( I agree )
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes. ( Serious!!!..I dont think so. :P)
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship. ( This is definately true)
The seriousness of your love:Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates. (Plenty of dates??? BUt but i am always at HOME!!!)
Your views on education: Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can. ( Honestly speaking, i dont think so. I didnt start studying till college..haha..)
The right job for you:You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life. ( No comment yet)
How do you view success:You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous. ( So true!!!!)
What are you most afraid of:You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear. ( Trying to deny but i tink i am )
Who is your true self:You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve. ( Ok!! When the lala land group read the third word which is mature, there where lots of question marks..Haha..i am okay...)
Haha...sorry for not updating this blog as i am now busy with my restaurant....in the facebook...haha...Have a lovely weekend .
Yong
Get to know yourself better:
Your view on yourself: You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties. ( I agree )
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes. ( Serious!!!..I dont think so. :P)
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship. ( This is definately true)
The seriousness of your love:Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates. (Plenty of dates??? BUt but i am always at HOME!!!)
Your views on education: Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can. ( Honestly speaking, i dont think so. I didnt start studying till college..haha..)
The right job for you:You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life. ( No comment yet)
How do you view success:You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous. ( So true!!!!)
What are you most afraid of:You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear. ( Trying to deny but i tink i am )
Who is your true self:You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve. ( Ok!! When the lala land group read the third word which is mature, there where lots of question marks..Haha..i am okay...)
Haha...sorry for not updating this blog as i am now busy with my restaurant....in the facebook...haha...Have a lovely weekend .
Yong
Quiz
My result:
Your view on yourself:You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
The seriousness of your love:You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?
Your views on educationYou may not like to study but you have many practical ideas. You listen to your own instincts and tend to follow your heart, so you will probably end up with an unusual job.
The right job for you:You have many goals and want to achieve as much as you can. The jobs you enjoy are those that let you burn off your considerable excess energy.
How do you view success:You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.
What are you most afraid of:You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.
Who is your true self:You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.
-Jenny-
Your view on yourself:You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
The seriousness of your love:You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?
Your views on educationYou may not like to study but you have many practical ideas. You listen to your own instincts and tend to follow your heart, so you will probably end up with an unusual job.
The right job for you:You have many goals and want to achieve as much as you can. The jobs you enjoy are those that let you burn off your considerable excess energy.
How do you view success:You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.
What are you most afraid of:You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.
Who is your true self:You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.
-Jenny-
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Quiz
My result:)
Your view on yourself: You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for: You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship: You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.
The seriousness of your love: Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.
Your views on education: Education is less important than the real world out there, away from the classroom. Deep inside you want to start working, earning money and living on your own.
The right job for you: You have many goals and want to achieve as much as you can. The jobs you enjoy are those that let you burn off your considerable excess energy.
How do you view success: You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.
What are you most afraid of: You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.
Who is your true self: You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.
-Kelvin
Your view on yourself: You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for: You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship: You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.
The seriousness of your love: Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.
Your views on education: Education is less important than the real world out there, away from the classroom. Deep inside you want to start working, earning money and living on your own.
The right job for you: You have many goals and want to achieve as much as you can. The jobs you enjoy are those that let you burn off your considerable excess energy.
How do you view success: You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.
What are you most afraid of: You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.
Who is your true self: You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.
-Kelvin
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